“Keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you.”
Success…everyone wants it, but most of us have no idea how to achieve it. In fact, do we even really know what is “success” ?
There's no real standard definition for success, because It is as individual as we are.
For me success doesn’t mean being rich or have a lot of money but it means doing work which I love ,which I find my true self and which I have the passion to do it with a big smile no matter how hard It is .
What does success mean for you? Is it really about a certain amount of money in the bank, or a certain figure on the scales?
If you get your definition of success, It is the time to tell you about the ingredients of SUCCESS .
INGREDIENT #1: ENTHUSIASM
If youkknowthe importance of enthusiasm means that you will be able to succeed if you :
- Choose a career which you love, not just the one which makes you the most money.
- Look for ways to maintain your enthusiasm. That might mean constantly learning new things in a particular area, or trying out different techniques.
- While you’re feeling particularly enthused, write down all your reasons for working on this particular project or goal. Turn to this as a reminder if your enthusiasm wanes.
INGREDIENT #2: TIME
Check that you’re giving yourself enough time. That means:
- Don’t take on so many projects that you end up rushing or abandoning most of them.
- Accept that some changes will take a steady commitment over a period of time.
- Estimate the time commitment before taking on something new. Sure, you might feel really enthusiastic about your book idea – but is it a realistic project right now?
INGREDIENT #3: ENERGY
However many hours you’ve got available, you need the energy to actually use them. I’m sure you’ve experienced this for yourself – perhaps you had a whole afternoon to spend writing your book, but you were feeling drained and tired, and didn’t get anything done.
Obviously, energy is necessary for physical goals (like training for a marathon) – but mental energy is just as important.
Making sure that you have enough energy involves:
- Giving yourself the down time that you need to relax and re-energize.
- Getting enough sleep, and eating sensibly: basic, but important.
- Paying attention to your emotional state – if your mood is often low, it’s hard to have the energy for your goals.
- Focusing on your health as a key priority.
INGREDIENT #4: SUPPORT
The final ingredient for success is support.
Sadly, it’s not always the case that our nearest and dearest support our goals. You may face resistance from family or close friends – often because they love you. They might be afraid that you’ll fail, or that you’re taking on too much.
When you’re working towards your definition of success, it’s important to find other people who can value it. That doesn’t necessarily mean that they share it (perhaps your dream is to travel the world, and your friend loves her cozy home life) – but they’ll understand why it’s important to you.
If you’re struggling to find support at home or amongst your friends:
- Look for a club or group to join. If you’re trying to lose weight, for instance, there’s almost certainly a slimming club nearby.
- Find an online forum where you can get support from like-minded people.
- Look for a conference or other event that relates to your goal – you’ll get a real buzz from a focused period of time spent in the company of others who share your dreams and ambitions.
So set your goals and don't be afraid to crush it, work hard and do your best to make your dreams come true. Because if you don't you will 100% regret it.
